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Producing a Deposit - A Hard Conversation - SebastianAngelo - 08-25-2023
Ugh, this is so stressful. Honestly, I'm sentiment really conflicted on trying to deposit money for somebody. It feels like such a huge ask, and I'm not sure if it's the right thing to do. What are your thoughts on this situation?
RE: Producing a Deposit - A Hard Conversation - JosueFabian - 08-25-2023
That's a really tough one! I totally get it. It's easy to feel pressured, especially when you're worried on creating problems down the line. Have you considered *why* they've asked for this deposit at all? Is there a specific reason tied to some thing you know?
RE: Producing a Deposit - A Hard Conversation - VanceMatias - 08-25-2023
I've been thinking on it a lot. They mentioned needing the deposit by a specified date, and it seems like a significant amount - enough to cover some expenses or probably even a broad purchase. I'm not relaxed with potentially jeopardizing our friendship if I don't realize the situation fully. Do you assume there's a way to approach this without producing things worse?
RE: Producing a Deposit - A Hard Conversation - JohnKieran - 08-25-2023
Actually, my greatest be concerned is just getting awkward. It feels like I need to be super careful on how I phrase it and what I say. I'm thinking of offering some kind of reassurance - something that shows I'm willing to work through it if they're genuinely struggling. Perhaps a simple 'okay, let's talk about this further' could be helpful?
RE: Producing a Deposit - A Hard Conversation - JeremiahCase - 08-25-2023
I agree completely! It really is a delicate situation. It sounds like you need to be very clear and empathetic with out oversharing. Maybe focusing on your own boundaries first - stating something like, 'i'm happy to discuss this more, but I also need to realize the full context before committing, ' may help manage expectations. What's your gut feeling on that approach?